~only bad girl suffers~

As promised, i met Prof this morning to show my corrected paper. He read it and he kept silent. Then he told me that he disagree with my framework of analysis and he asked me to do some changes. He gave me two options for me to choose. The easier or the harder tasks. I asked for his suggestion, but then he answered me to do the difficult task.

Then, he tried to motivate me by telling that, "You're a good girl!"

Before i left his room, i told him that "i'm suffering in writing this thesis". He then answered me, "No! You're not suffering! You're a good girl. Only bad girl suffers". Prof., thank you for your words. I know you're really a good teacher, a good father and a good mother for us. May Allah SWT bless you.

No cries,

No tears,

No stresses,

No laziness,

No hopeless,

No suffers,

Only bad girl suffers.

الحمد لله على كل حال

All praises to Allah in every circumstances and matters. Alhamdulillah, after performed asr prayer just now, i feel relax and calm. Sitting in the mosque, really makes my heart calm. Alhamdulillah, it's so nice to have this kind of feeling. Indeed, "busy life makes prayer harder, but prayer makes busy life easier". My secondary school teacher once told us, "Calmness is the First Victory". And i can feel it when i have lots of pressure in my life. Be calm!!! Sure you can solve your problems by the permission of Allah. And the calmness can be gained through remembrance of Allah. InshaAllah. For every problem, there will be solution. May Allah helps all of us. By the way, i have promised to meet my honored Professor tomorrow morning regarding my thesis progress. I shall stop now... maas salamah wa ilal liqa'...

p/s: Smile to cure your heartache, smile to be happy, smile to solve your problem, smile to give sadaqah, no matter how big the test come to you just smile in life... ibtaseem daeeman (^___^)

THINK U CAN DO... SURE U CAN DO

i almost lost my motivation in writing my research paper.... i've been criticized and my paper has been rejected so many times... i was very sad and depressed... but then i was thinking that, this is a learning process... better i've been criticized for what i know, rather than i've been praised for what i do not know... today, i remember a song which was very popular during my childhood. i am impressed with the song's lyrics. i believed most of us still remember this song:

Jika kau fikirkan kau boleh
kau pasti boleh melakukan
jika kau fikirkan ragu-ragu
usahamu tidak menentu
jika kau fikirkan kekalahan
kau hampiri kegagalan
jika kau fikirkan kemenangan
kau hampiri kejayaan
engkaulah apa kau fikirkan
terkandung dalam pemikiran
berfikir boleh melakukan
fikirkan boleh!!!
percaya apa kau lakukan
tabah apa kau usahakan
bertindak atas kemampuan
engkau boleh!!!

So, for all my friends who are facing the difficulties, have confident in ourselves. InshaAllah we THINK WE CAN DO, SURE WE CAN DO... be positive all the times and don't lose hope from Allah's mercies... so, let all of us FIGHTING and STRUGGLING for our goals... WE CAN DO!!!

\(^0^)/

فصبر جميل

Dear Nury!

I'm sorry to hear that you're emotionally unstable lately... don't worry... i'm here to motivate and cheer you up!!!

My dear!!!

Calm down and please think rationally... what's make you feel depressed? i know, you must be very stress thinking about your thesis writing... dear, you can do it!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!! Please have confident in yourself, ask help from Him everyday in your dua'... release your tension, concentrate and focus in your writing, free your mind from anything which can disturb your focus, open your heart, arrange and plan your time and consult regularly with your lecturers. There is no reason that you cannot do it...

About your heart feeling, just put aside first... i know, you cannot avoid such feeling that came into your heart... but, don't let the feeling control you... you must control your feeling. If you really sincere for the person, ask Allah to protect him and preserve him. InshaAllah, you'll be able to manage your feeling.

If you feel like to shed your tears, do it... But, do it in your dua'... shed your tears only for Him and not to others... tell your problems to Him, because He is The Most Listening, He is The Best Helper.

And seek help from Allah in prayers and patience.... PATIENCE is IMPORTANT. PATIENCE is DISCIPLINE. Be patient my dear!!! FASOBRUN JAMEEL... InshaAllah, you will achieve your mission... I shall stop now!!! I really hope to hear from you good news... smile is the best cure for your heartache... thus, smile always!!! See you and please take care...

sincerely,

annuri_iium

(^____^,)

Life is Short

Dear Nury,

I'm glad to hear you're doing well. Well, thanks to Allah for all the ni'mah and rizk that He has bestowed on you. Alhamdulillah, you've settled few matters this week. Good job... Alhamdulillah.

Anyway, today is friday, the best day, the head of the seven days. While i'm writing at this moment, the weather outside my window is cloudy. The rain has stopped just now. The temperature in this room also getting cold eventhough my watch shows the time is 1.25pm. What a beautiful day that Allah creates for all His slaves. Subhanallah.

Well, i know you still have lots of thing to do. I don't want to take your time, just want to advice you some important things. While you struggling and struggling to achieve what do you want to achieve, don't forget your rights and duties as human being. Your duties and rights to your parents, your family and friends, other human being and the rights between you and the Creator. Life is short, so, do as much as good things to all the creatures and never once do evil things. Give much to others and never ask something in return. InshaAllah, you will find the happiness in your life although you are not living in a castle which full of the treasures and gems. It's time to stop now, the muazzin has called for jumuah prayer. Well, hope to hear good things from you later. Take care!!!!

Yours Sincerely,

-annuri@iium-

~Don't Simply Give Up~

Dear Nury,

How are you? I hope you're doing well. How's your life going on? I pray to Allah may He always protect and shower His blessings on you. Alhamdulillah, thanks to Allah, the All-Giver for still giving you chances to worship Him and to do good deeds to others. I am not going to write much, just few words to give you supports and to motivate you on facing all the challenges ahead. Life is a stage of problem, and nobody lives in this world without problem. You must be strong, you must have patience, you must have confidence to face all the challenges infront of you. And the most important thing, you can't simply give up and lose hope from Allah's mercies.

InshaAllah, work hard and ask help from Allah SWT. InshaAllah, everything will be running smoothly as you planned. I wish you all the best in your life and in your future undertaking. Take care of your goodself and ilal liqa'.

Yours Sincerely,
-annuri@iium-